Female Orgasms Part Deux
Dear Fellow Friends Seeking Orgasmic Orgasms
Since my titillating post has garnered a number of comments, I feel the pressing need to write a part two to clarify certain questions and also to help friends in need.
Why 468 times (now it is 470 times if I am counting….)??? - well it is REALLY an educated guess, I suppose. I have been married like what 5 years? Supposing I have only sex twice a week for 52 consecutive weeks (or taking out the week for periods it is 36 weeks) we will have the number 360. In view that I was far more active in my first two years of marriage and the fact that I was already sexually active before marriage (yes, naughty, naughty) - the number 468 is actually quite a conservative number….
Is there such a thing as a G-spot? Really I don’t know. Throughout those climaxes I have I can tell the difference between a “clitorial” climax and a “penetrative” climax (and yes they are different). I have No idea if I ever had a G-spot climax, or if it exists for that matter. The thing is, reaching the pinnacle is a great enough experience for me - I don’t feel the need to find the Shangrila of all orgasms, and frankly I am too lazy to do a scientific study on where the damn thing is anyway!!
How can women in general have more orgasms? Other than the suggestions that I have in my first post, I think we as a gender should feel less guilty that we are enjoying ourselves. It is our right. God made us this way, gave us the necessary instruments and nerve points so that we can hit the Big “O”. There is nothing dirty about this. Orgasmic sex is very relaxing, especially after a really tensed and stressful workday. You just want to f**k your brains out and not think about anything terrible.
While I have been very successful in reaching the top, the road there is not always easy. When you are randy and its the right time in your cycle, everything falls into place. Sometimes you are stressed up, timing is not right, and you feel dry and haggard and your brain is thinking about that unclosed sale rather than the naked man in front of you - you can bet your bottom dollar that it takes MASSIVE effort to reach that goal. There are times on such occasions that I think, maybe I shouldn’t bother, one less orgasm won’t kill me, its too tedious, and I should just hurry up so that everything is over and we can both sleep. But then a voice tells me - why are you denying yourself the pleasure?? I should get something out of this! And then I will cast everything aside and strive towards the end - and there you go.
Routine kills sex. Really it does. I look at Mr Boo and think, “Man, I have got to have sex with the same man for the next 50 years! Can I do it?” At 5 years it sometimes feel robotic, we are DOING IT for the sake of DOING IT. But then, you remind yourself why you love this man, and that we do have good sex, and we try different places in the house, and different kama sutra styles, and it brings the fire back.
I hope this answers some questions, and if ever I have more “insights” I’ll be sure to pass on to you!
